Every man has had a first date that he knows isn’t going to lead to a second one. Nothing goes right the entire night. You find out she has the opposite political opinions of you. The movie sucked. The dinner you got was terrible. Everything about this date was wrong and you’re just counting the minutes until you can politely leave when you should be planning your next move. If you’re really on a date from hell you don’t have anything to lose by trying one of these bold moves on your date.
Ask Her to Go to a Hotel
Hotel sex is the best sex that you can have if it’s not your birthday. With that in mind, a lot of guys don’t ask for it. It’s presumptive and rude. Especially if you’re not sure that she wants to have sex with you. However, when you’re at the tail end of a bad date you really don’t have anything to lose. Women get excited too. She could be disappointed with the way things are going. So as you drive her home, why not point out some place off the beaten track and ask if she’d like to check in for a couple hours or the night? You know you two aren’t a match for forever, but you could at least try not to let the night be a total waste.
Make a Move in a Public Space
If you’re not normally the kind of guy to make your move in a theater or in a remote nook in the park, now’s your chance. She might turn you down, but you’re getting practice. If you can charm a woman on a bad date you can definitely succeed with a woman who wants to be with you. To get truly confident you have to feel confident. You need to stop being afraid to be turned down. If you have a woman where you go into it knowing she’s not happy it makes your successes sweeter while giving your valuable practice at not letting one rejection ruin your mood.
Don’t Do the Naked Man
The Naked Man is a move that’s been floating around. The idea is that you get into her house, wait until she’s out of the room, and then get naked. When she comes back she’ll feel too awkward to not sleep with you… most of the time. You’re better than this. It’s one thing to practice handling rejection by making moves on a woman, and it’s another to turn up naked in her house. The difference is that one is a lot less threatening than the other. You can get into a lot of trouble if she doesn’t think you’re funny and calls the police. Rather than freaking her out and getting a bad reputation just bid her good night at the door.
When you know that your date isn’t going to end well you can either mope, or turn it into a learning opportunity. There’s one choice that will make you happier than the other. Take advantage of a bad date and try some bold moves.