It’s great to be able to bust out of your rut by hooking up with someone new. You could be rusty if you haven’t had a lot of recent practice, though. Foreplay is the most important part of sex when it comes to pleasing your partner. If you want to keep her coming back for more, foreplay is your time to shine. Here are some tips to help you out if your creativity is running low after a dry spell.
Take It Slow
When it’s been awhile you can be tempted to rush into things. Get a grip and take things slow. You want to make sure that she’s so sensitive that she can feel your breath on her skin. You want her to be wet and ready by the time anything serious happens. With that in mind, you can’t rush this. You might be champing at the bit to get down to business, but contain yourself. The longer you make foreplay, the more she’s going to enjoy sex. The more she enjoys it, the sooner you’ll be able to do it again.
Have Some Fun Toys Around
If you want a spicy encounter, be sure to bring a couple low key toys to the bedroom. You don’t want to start out with anything too kinky right away. Aim for some finger tip clit massagers. These little beauties are cheap and effective, and they take all the work out of turning her on. If you know that your lady loves some clit action, slip these on and pleasure her like never before. She’ll be begging for you by the time they’ve done their job, and you’ve saved your creativity and effort for actually having sex.
Be Bold and So Will She
If you want to have a great time in bed (and we know that you do) you need to be bold. Confidence is sexy not just when you’re flirting with a woman at the bar or meeting your online hookup for the first time, but when you’re actually getting down to business as well. Even when it’s been awhile since you had to impress a lady, you can still whip out a couple tips and tricks if you tell yourself that you can. The best part is that when you’re bold, she’ll feel free to be bold too. You’ll have the best foreplay of your life when she feels like she can try anything with you and you can handle it.
Be Generous Enough to Go Down First
Oral is fantastic, wanted, and very difficult to get a woman to do. Take the plunge yourself first and you’ll find her very willing to return the favor. Women love oral, so if you’re feeling like nothing you’re doing is making her moan then you should move on to oral. It’s the trump card that you’re looking for. There’s no such thing as bad oral sex so long as you’re not biting her.