Going shopping with women is usually extremely frustrating, and chances are that you want to avoid it at all costs. You may have even gone out of your way to avoid it in the past. What you probably haven’t realized is that going shopping with a woman can be a great way to get her to see you in a positive light. It may be slightly painful for you, especially if she makes you carry all of her bags, but the reward may wind up being extremely worth the aggravation. Since you’ve probably never considered it before, there are some very good reasons why you should let your date or hookup drag you shopping with her.
It Shows Her That You Care
When you let a woman take you shopping with her, it shows her that you actually care about her and her interests. It may seem strange to you, but taking a woman shopping and allowing her to drag you around the mall will show her that you have a sensitive side to you. This is a good thing, and not the kind of sensitivity that will make her think you might be gay. The willingness to let a woman drag you around while she shops is similar to a woman letting a guy drag her to sports games. It’s obviously not something that you yourself are particularly interested in, but you care about her interests in enough to do something that you might not really want to do under normal circumstances. This can be a great way of getting a woman to appreciate you whether you want a short-term fling or a longer relationship. Either way, it will definitely gain you brownie points.
It Makes You Stand out from the Other Guys
You probably don’t particularly enjoy going shopping, and the same is true for almost all guys. Because of this, most women probably don’t get to enjoy the idea of going out shopping with their boyfriends or dates very often. Showing her that you are willing to go shopping with her will be a novelty for her, since most of the guys she goes out with probably refuse the very idea and have to be dragged kicking and screaming. When you try to hook up with women, the best thing you can do is make sure you stand out from all the other guys vying for her attention.
The Other Benefits to Taking Her Shopping
There are some other benefits to taking her shopping – you might wind up passing by a lingerie store, after all. If you’re shopping with her, you can always try and convince her to stop in and take a look at things. The chances of her coming back from a solo shopping trip with something to wear for you are fairly slim, but if you’re there with her, she might feel goaded on into trying on some lingerie. This is a great way to spice things up, and she won’t really mind since she has you there to carry all her bags for her.